We are same

How is loving someone wrong? Why do people change their perspective when it comes to LGBT people? Are they different? NO.

We all are humans. We are same. We have our basic rights to choose who we love. Society usually neglects the homosexual love. 

Sometimes LGBT people are not even accepted by their families. But who are we to decide which kind of love is wrong? Love is love. So what if a girl loves another girl or a guy loves another guy. It's their personal choice. Who are you talk shit about them. Major population of LGBT hide their sexuality due to fear of violence and discrimination. 

The worst thing that happens is when your family doesn't accept you for what you are. Family and friends should make them comfortable and give their unconditional love to them. 

All they need is your support to face the negative world. There is nothing wrong in being homosexual. Don't be afraid of the world. Try to come out of the closet. Be brave. Be you. If you hide this for a long time, it will gradually kill you. 

There are people out there who are living a happy and healthy life , who are absolutely fine and they happen to be gay as well.

People who say "homosexuals must be stopped", I might like to ask -from what ? Loving one another? Carrying on lives? I will also ask-why? 

P.S

Stop spreading your negative vibes in the world. We all are same yet different.

It’s not love when you say...

Yeah it’s not love, when you say “I wanna die before my partner dies” or “if death has to come then  it should come to me first” to impress your partner and to show how much you love her (“her” for your girl here and for girls reading this, read “him” :D).

But does this really make sense? Is praying and wishing for dying before helps your partner in any way? Will your love be happy to see you taking your last breath in front of her? Will you be happy to leave her alone in this cruel world? Is this the love you have for her? Is this how much you love her that you just wanna get out of this shit world as soon as possible leaving her behind struggling to face all the odds of the world all alone?

No, this is not love. Love is to make sure you are there with her till her last breath, love is to make sure she faces all the struggles with you behind, love is to make sure you are there with her when you grow old.

So just make this thought trash out of your brain that love is to die before your partner. Always wish that you are there with her till she is alive.

Won’t you enjoy this, holding her hand and walking out everywhere when you grow old, talking about your younger days together? And everything else.

So on this Valentine’s Day say her something she will admire, something she will be happy to hear, something that will make her fall in love with you all over again.

And yeah for sure, stop saying that first line of this blog :p

#fallinlove

and yes credits to someone special for the idea behind this blog ;)

DIY Ideas for Valentines day gift.

Its that time of the year when love and love birds both float in the air. So we have decided to make this year a bit more romantic by giving away few amazing ideas for valentines day as committed ones are out of ideas and singles are full of ideas. Ok! Chocolates are delicious and flowers are classy, but will they work year after year? NO!!!

So here are few DIY ideas to shake up the yearly routines-

1. Personalized audio or video: Nothings better than making a video or recording an audio for your loved one. You may bring in your common friends too to make it much more interesting and fun. Plus its easy to share on social web (; (i would advice to keep it to personal. No PDAs.)

2. Craft works on pots or canvas: Another great idea if you are creative and a bit artistic. You both can go out and paint some mugs, pots or canvas and take it home when its done. It'll remain with you forever unlike the flowers.

3. Jig saw puzzle with a message: Well this will surely help you find out the real problem solving skills of your loved one. Take a cardboard, write a beautiful idea and cut it into pieces of a puzzle (Don't make tooooooo may pieces that he/she is still jumbling it till next V-day).

4. Apology note pad: We are boys and we do goof up. Take a note pad and write down all the goof ups that you made being together and you may write your stupid reasons for what caused them. It sounds real fun to me (I'll try it ASAP :p).

5. Cook? : To be honest i cant even make noodles. But within it lies the real interesting part, cook whatever you want and have a lunch or dinner together.

6. Adopt a *STAR* : The best one out of all you can now adopt a star for as low as $15. This will be one heck of a gift! To adopt just Click here . You can watch your star on Google Sky. All the money received is donated for further space research by the NGO.

So now you have all the ingredients just make a beautiful dish outta this. Best of Luck!


Do read our blog : Breaking up just before Valentine's  here

I just need a HUG

So here I go again, I still have all those memories sharp enough to write a blog.

I was just promoted to 6th standard and a bunch of new students too joined are class. The first day, as usual I was sitting with my friends and chatting about all kind of stuffs before the first period. After few moments of "halla and gullaa" it was time for the class teacher to enter, we sat properly on our benches.

Then that moment came, she entered the class (not the class teacher haha). A new student, super cute, with little curly hairs, struggling to find that comfort zone (we all have that feeling, you guys know what I am talking about), a new place and everyone staring at you.

Yes, I too was staring at her(haha). I was just completely staring at her. It was a love at first sight for me, I was flat at her, I totally was.

I knew I was too young to fall in love but who cares, yes I was in love from that very moment. What's her name? I was too curious to know. The class teacher entered, now what I was waiting for? yes you guessed it right, the attendance. I was waiting for her to attend her roll call and there it was, the class teacher called her name and she cutely, still very shy replied "present mam".

Oh god! she is damm cute, she is so beautiful, I want to talk to her, my heart ordered my brain. "Go you stupid, go talk to her". And yes I did, I interacted with her. (yeah!! smiles all over my face)

Fast forward and the story jumps to 10th class. From being strangers to being very good friends by now.

"Oh!! what is happening in the school. What sort of rules are they coming up with", I said. The below average students should be in one section and others in that 'A' section (huhh!! those school days).

And I was sent to the '10th C' section and she headed to 'A'. God that feeling, will I be able to talk to her again? will we meet frequently? what about our friendship? should I tell her I am in love with her? and what not in the world I was thinking.

The annual day celebrations, my group by now had this idea that I was in love with her. One of my friend took both of us to corner and he told everything to her. "What is happening? I should have told this to her and not my friend" (but somewhere or the other I was thankful to him that he made her aware of all my feelings, I guess I was too shy). She asked for some time.

After a day, we met, on the stairs."We will remain friends, very good friends", she said. "No way yar!!" (my inner voice). "Hmm ok" what I actually said to her with a big smile on my face. I know I should have said something more but I didn't.

Years passed and in these years a strong bond build between two of us. We have a common friend, who was the main what you say, main link between both of us. She helped a lot in all those years to bring us close and she still does.

12th standard, I started sensing something from her end too. Yes! she too was in love with me (big smile :D ). Just before the pre board exams, on 31st Dec 2009, we talked over phone and then over messages. Yes!! we were officially (hahaha yes officially) in a relationship.

Everything was super cool between us, so much fun, so much leg pulling, movies, surprises, gifts, roses and yes lot of LOVE.

Then one day, it was sometime around Dec 2012, she stopped talking to me. I still remember I was in my college, waiting for her call (the time we usually talk over phone), I called her but nothing, phone cut. What the hell is happening, I was desperate to know. I messaged her, no reply. The full day passed like this. Our common friend, I called her up to know whats the matter. She too was unaware of the whole thing.

I tried, I tried, I desperately tried to contact her. Then one day, my phone beeped, it was her message, "she didn't want to continue the relationship". Reason? no idea. What happened, I was desperate to know.

Weeks passed and I was still in shock, I was truly very disappointed with her. I was very angry but this love, god!! not letting me show it to her. We have had few chats over messages not about that relationship stuffs, other normal things.

"Sachin", my heart prompted, "at least ask her the reason", "no" my brain said, "you should not, it's her decision and may be she have some genuine reasons, it won't look good".

I still don't know was it a bad decision, to let her go without trying hard. Yes I tried for few months but at the same time I respected her decision. I tried to have her back in my life but I saw nothing positive from her end. It hurt, it deeply hurt me. "There is nothing like love in this world, you stupid" my brain again. Sleepless nights, from a happy go lucky boy to more serious now, I completely changed.

Present time : This love, this feeling, the respect, the eagerness to ask our common friend how she is? is she doing good? sending her the birthday wish, sharing everything important going on in my life with her (though it's not every time I get a reply from her). Don't know why but I still really like this, I still love her and have that strong feeling that she will come back one day.  One thing that give me that, you know, a little hope, a little idea, that she still have something for me is receiving wonderful birthday wishes from her in all these years. I wait for my birthday just for this reason, yes, I wait for her text, nothing else.

If you're reading this blog, I just want to say I really love you, I really want you back. You are my happiness, you are everything for me. The best that can happen in my life is YOU. Your this year birthday wish said, "I pray best for you". Stupid you are the one who is "best" for me. Why don't you get this.

PS : I am sorry I shared this over here, now please don't scold me haa :p

For the readers out there, this story is still incomplete and I hope it has all smiles and hurray sort of end.

TO BE CONTINUED ....    

Till then read : It's not love when you say...  

    

  

From a Nooby Red Devil to an Acute Gunner!

I started watching football on television back in 2004 as Liverpool lifting champions league trophy in Istanbul is the most vivid thing i remember from back then. So just like every beginner i started following the champions The Red Devils, Manchester United! Such was their Charisma and aura back then. They had Ronaldo, Rooney and Tevez the most feared trio of that time along with Giggsy and Scholes in their midfield and Van der sar, Ferdinand,Vidic and Evra completing the back line. Brutal if you describe them in one word. I had very modest start with watching EPL one or two match a month would suffice my hunger (now i watch as much as 10-12 matches a month). Surely watching only Man u play only and only them, they played match winning football. then came that night when Bacelona's Messi crushed Man u in Rome to win champions league in 2009 and with it Ronaldo bid adieu to The Theater of dreams and he went on to become a Galactico. United were never same after that with him they won league titles in 2006-07,2007-08,2008-09 after that just twice in 6 years loosing the brutality they had (now they are pathetic!)

I tried to catch up with La liga just to see Ronaldo play there but it was a 2 horse race back then (may be 3 horse now :p) it had all the luster but lacked competitiveness. So just after 1 season of La liga back to EPL. Now coming to the best club ever (; - Arsenal, first full 90 mins that i saw them play was back in 2011 early Feb the match every gunner will love to forget. We scored 4 goals in first half (with first 3 coming within 10 mins from the start.) I was hoping for a drubbing in the second half but it was much funnier than that we gave way 2 penalties (classic Arsenal back then) Newcastle went on to draw that game with Tiote scoring a gem of a goal just before the full time. Incredible and astonishing not the way magpies played but the way we played in first half. That was the start, Glory Glory Man United was buried and COYG! was sprouting. At the time players were deboarding Arsenal I boarded that bus, Nasri left so did Clichy, Fabregas and Van Persie. Unhurriedly I started finding about the glorious history we had the days of Henry and Begkamp, The Invincible season, Highbury, agonizingly losing that final to Barcelona and the stadium move which multiplied my respect for the club.

One would laugh but I have spent nights crying on the ruing chances of winning a game and  calculating the permutations and combinations just to finish fourth to play UCL next year. Never once we failed to do that and doing that and that too with the players which other clubs keep on their benches as surplus :p. Classic counter attacks, 'you cant see me' passing, ethics most importantly, selflessness dil hi aa gya bas. Things started improving came in Cazorla, Podolski, Giroud, Kos the boss, Ozil, Sanchez and lately Cech. Last 2 years have been great 2 FA cups and an assured League title this term (;. Our defense is as strong as i have ever seen new crop of players is startling. Although w

e still don't know how to play match winning football and it's no problem if we dont win unless we keep playing like this, The beautiful Football.

Long Live Arsenal! COYG!