It’s not love when you say...

Yeah it’s not love, when you say “I wanna die before my partner dies” or “if death has to come then  it should come to me first” to impress your partner and to show how much you love her (“her” for your girl here and for girls reading this, read “him” :D).

But does this really make sense? Is praying and wishing for dying before helps your partner in any way? Will your love be happy to see you taking your last breath in front of her? Will you be happy to leave her alone in this cruel world? Is this the love you have for her? Is this how much you love her that you just wanna get out of this shit world as soon as possible leaving her behind struggling to face all the odds of the world all alone?

No, this is not love. Love is to make sure you are there with her till her last breath, love is to make sure she faces all the struggles with you behind, love is to make sure you are there with her when you grow old.

So just make this thought trash out of your brain that love is to die before your partner. Always wish that you are there with her till she is alive.

Won’t you enjoy this, holding her hand and walking out everywhere when you grow old, talking about your younger days together? And everything else.

So on this Valentine’s Day say her something she will admire, something she will be happy to hear, something that will make her fall in love with you all over again.

And yeah for sure, stop saying that first line of this blog :p

#fallinlove

and yes credits to someone special for the idea behind this blog ;)

Breaking up just before Valentine's.

This started months after my high school ended way back in August 2010 I met this girl. Stupendous, dazzling, bold, bright and brainy as I had always dreamt of. Was I shy enough to take her by her hand? Nopes. It was not long that we started hanging around in our classes, outdoors and every places. Small talks tuned into hours of chats, early good nights to late night stupidities sometimes even early morning ones too. Its so strange how time runs so fast when things go right. So as intended we started dating and were the best of friends and lovers. Did all classes and even internship together, spent all the holidays even many Sundays together, a bond unbreakable?

None of my friends or relative knew her although they all knew her by her name. Some said I ain't good enough for her some said she ain't for me but somehow we just stuck together through all the ups and downs we faced. May be we knew we'll make it though at the end or we thought we would. She taught me every little thing, introduced to some of my best friends now and made me a much wiser and sensible man. So going by the numbers this 14th would have been our 6th Valentine's day together,a day we had always spent with each others (although all we did was naive and senseless). We had everything planned for the sweet day but she died 18 days back. But we made it through!

Oh I forgot to mention her name (few might be curious enough to know her name by now), her name was "My CA student Life'. Ya I know i got you :p. I am a chartered Accountant now bdw and passed my final exams 18 days back (;. But I'll always remember this girl and be thankful to her for where she took me up and where she left me. Do i want this girl again ? Hahahahah naah No ways never , never in my next life. What next? These days I am giving interviews for a new Chic whom I'll be dating for the next phase of my life which will surely be much less gloomy.

Just wanna say Thanks to everyone who were there with me for the last few years. I know that was the worst but good is right up the corner. Time changes in minutes baby!!!! 
CHEERS!!!!

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