It’s not love when you say...

Yeah it’s not love, when you say “I wanna die before my partner dies” or “if death has to come then  it should come to me first” to impress your partner and to show how much you love her (“her” for your girl here and for girls reading this, read “him” :D).

But does this really make sense? Is praying and wishing for dying before helps your partner in any way? Will your love be happy to see you taking your last breath in front of her? Will you be happy to leave her alone in this cruel world? Is this the love you have for her? Is this how much you love her that you just wanna get out of this shit world as soon as possible leaving her behind struggling to face all the odds of the world all alone?

No, this is not love. Love is to make sure you are there with her till her last breath, love is to make sure she faces all the struggles with you behind, love is to make sure you are there with her when you grow old.

So just make this thought trash out of your brain that love is to die before your partner. Always wish that you are there with her till she is alive.

Won’t you enjoy this, holding her hand and walking out everywhere when you grow old, talking about your younger days together? And everything else.

So on this Valentine’s Day say her something she will admire, something she will be happy to hear, something that will make her fall in love with you all over again.

And yeah for sure, stop saying that first line of this blog :p

#fallinlove

and yes credits to someone special for the idea behind this blog ;)